Sunday, October 7

Only Girl

Our family had been blessed recently... another grandchild for my parents, the number 8 and the only girl.

My elder sister gave birth to a baby girl, Yzabelle.

I'm not there to share the happiness but I'm rejoicing here because now there's a girl among the cousins.

Ian is the 7th boy grandchild. Before, I had my scan when I was pregnant everybody in the family expected a baby girl.. and they reckon Ian was. A neighbor even told me that I'm having a girl though we knew the gender through the scan. And everybody was happy with the thought. Yes, that's how hungry they were for a baby girl.

Now, there's another reason to be excited to go for a vacation.

Light his world

Ian loves light, well.. whose baby doesn't? He can look at the lamp very intently for a couple of minutes, he doesnt get bored. At night when I'm feeding him in bed, I wanted to turn the bedside lamp as he looks at it and sways his attention away from eating but I can't see what's happening with the light off. When he's whingy, I just take him outside when the sun is up and shiny and everything will be bright again. MCJ sometimes played game with him with our bedside lamp by letting him touch it to turn it on and off, and it made him laugh. It's they're toy. lol. Maybe if the lamp has more intricate design like Murray Feiss, babies would be more drawn into it.

Saturday, October 6

Is it crunchtime?

However you may manage your finances there really comes crunch time. It's not because you spend more than you earn but you might have major expenses like paying off mortgage balloon payment, renovating a house, buying a car, or paying children's tuition. Yup, they are the expenses that can't be avoided (if you're committed to them early on) and eat up a big chunk of our budget or savings. And when you're getting closer to the end of the rope, you sometimes consider and try borrowing money in a spur of a moment. These days, borrowing money from big institutions do not happen in one day, a week or two weeks.. mostly a month. Thankfully, there are institutions that offer payday loans. Services such as these come in handy when the family financial belt is getting tight and the savings have been exhausted. But you must be sure that the offer is safe and secure.

Thursday, October 4

Ranting

I'm flat out with paperworks for my visa application. One of which is NBI clearance.

Okay, I checked out the website of Philippine Embassy here and gathered information. While it is a walk in the park to secure a NBI clearance in Manila, it was all together a different story when you're not in your homeland. And I sort of expected that but at the same time expected that it would be a bit organized and effecient them being in another country where public offices were expected to be that kind by the populace. But the way I see it, a simple process was just made complicated.

Here's how it is. Just a note, the information in the site isn't clear. You might suspect that it was intentionally made vague so you won't go through with it. lol. The form is not available electronically and only then they will send the form. The applicant will fill out the form, have her finger prints on it witnessed by a police officer then send the form back to the embassy with the $50 fee. I don't know what will they do with the form but they will send it back to the applicant and the applicant should send it to the NBI office in Manila with a 200 pesos fee (for I don't know what - maybe for the postage). The applicant should follow up to the NBI office in Manila not to the embassy here. How convenient is that? Not!

Okay, I don't have a choice but to go through with the process... so then I requested the form two weeks ago. When I rang the person incharge was not available but the lady who took my call got my name and address and what do I want, saying that she'll inform the incharge of my requirement. She gave me the mobile phone of the person incharge but I didn't bother to ring him as I see it was not necessary. I gave our residential address not the PO box so it will be delivered promptly. I waited... two days, one week... 10 days... nada! I ring up the other day and again the person incharge was not available and the same lady took my call. She said, the note where she wrote my requirement is sitting on the person incharge's table.. nothing has been sent. Waaaaaaa! Wouldn't you be annoyed with that? I was thinking that he might need some information from me before sending the form but hey, I gave my phone number. I tried to ring again yesterday and again, he's not available. Grrrrrrr!

MCJ once suggested that it might be better for me to go back to the Philippines and secure the forms/documents that I need myself. It might be a bit faster and secure. Too late though because we've let go of my paid return flight last month as the fare type was not refundable.

Hayyyyyy! I just really have to wait and wait.. and follow up.. and wait and follow up. Maybe, they'll come in our mailboxes soon.

Bet and Stream Live

When MCJ is not busy, he'll be stuck in front of the computer for ages.. as if he's really doing something of great importance if you can't hear the sounds playing, that is the sounds accompaniment of the games he's playing online. Games, not just one.. but all the assortments the site has to offer. It is interesting though, even for me who just listens to the sounds. He loves games, but he once tried sport betting.

So if you are the sort who loves sport betting, you might want to check out bet365.com. You can bet in almost all sports running, live. Some people bet and watch the actual sports while you can also be in your lounge room, being a couch potato, put a bet on your favorite sport and player and stream live.

Wanna try now? Davis Cup is now on...

Monday, October 1

I Know Me

Yesterday morning, I held Ian infront of the mirror and talked to him..to my great surprise, he smiled... or shall I say, laughed soundlessly while looking on my reflection on the mirror. That despite of him being whingy.


The proud Mummy in me was really exhilerated because that was the first time he reacted infront of the mirror. We've been trying to talk to him while facing in the mirror, introduced ourselves but he just looked around.

I don't know what was in his mind that time. Did it mean, he know's what he looks like now? Or that the mirror holds a reflection of how you look like? I'm not sure, but for me, that was another milestone.